Thats right it is going to happen, she asked me on the 4th of July and I said with out a doubt absolutely 100% I will spend my life with you! Date is set for next 4th of July, it is not going to be a $50,000 wedding like you see on TV and we will actually need some help to pull this off. She does not want a fancy wedding and just wants to get married outside like in a park, we can cover that but the one thing she does want is an off the hook reception where everyone there will always remember it!
(Calling all got mud members) we will need a DJ, Caterer, someone who can bake a nice cake (Might have that covered already) place to have the reception. We will be buying all the alcohol and lots of it lol. So if any of you DJ or have a caterer in the family or do it yourself and could give us a discount or if you have access to a hall or place to have a reception, ect, any and all help will be appreciated in putting this together, this is going to be our first and only wedding so we have no clue as to what to do or how to plan it hence why I am getting on it early.
By the way guys this is my future wife, the coolest most beautiful kind hearted person I am graced to walk on this earth with!
Congrats!!! but..... arn't you supposed to propose to her loll don't worry my wife did pretty much the same thing, a day before I was guna propose to her lmao.... I'd help ya out but your a little far for me :)
Congrats man pretty awesome she asked you
Quote from: madkmart on July 09, 2012, 05:36:37 AM
Congrats man pretty awesome she asked you
Floored me lol I never expected it, asked me on the 4th of July...she got an instant yes!
sweet lookin forwards to this
Quote from: madkmart on July 09, 2012, 05:36:37 AM
Congrats man pretty awesome she asked you
Quote from: xjs3667 on July 09, 2012, 05:34:58 AM
I'd help ya out but your a little far for me :)
That date is set the place is not however, just because we live in GR does not mean we need to get married in GR or have the reception here, I have a few friends who also live in Flint and Lansing, I am almost thinking of having it in Lansing that would be the halfway mark between GR and Flint.
Quote from: Disturban on July 09, 2012, 11:29:37 AM
Quote from: xjs3667 on July 09, 2012, 05:34:58 AM
I'd help ya out but your a little far for me :)
That date is set the place is not however, just because we live in GR does not mean we need to get married in GR or have the reception here, I have a few friends who also live in Flint and Lansing, I am almost thinking of having it in Lansing that would be the halfway mark between GR and Flint.
just remember you are not getting married for your friends, Where you have your wedding doesn't mean it has to be the most convenient location for friends and family. You want it somewhere you both decide and somewhere you will always remember. I love outdoor weddings, My cousin recently got married in Marquette, yeah one heck of a drive for us, but well worth it, it was actually the same place that her parents got married, right by the beach, over looking the cliffs :) and yeah we all went cliff diving afterwards too :) ohh and other than gas money to drive there and back it was very low budget, so yes look at all your options on where to go, Don't sacrifice one place for another that you both love, The best thing about having the wedding outside is that it cost almost nothing, so go all out on the place :) It's the receptions that cost a lot.
let me know where & when, ==congrads
umpa DJs send him a message
Quote from: xjs3667 on July 09, 2012, 01:08:40 PM
Quote from: Disturban on July 09, 2012, 11:29:37 AM
Quote from: xjs3667 on July 09, 2012, 05:34:58 AM
I'd help ya out but your a little far for me :)
That date is set the place is not however, just because we live in GR does not mean we need to get married in GR or have the reception here, I have a few friends who also live in Flint and Lansing, I am almost thinking of having it in Lansing that would be the halfway mark between GR and Flint.
just remember you are not getting married for your friends, Where you have your wedding doesn't mean it has to be the most convenient location for friends and family. You want it somewhere you both decide and somewhere you will always remember. I love outdoor weddings, My cousin recently got married in Marquette, yeah one heck of a drive for us, but well worth it, it was actually the same place that her parents got married, right by the beach, over looking the cliffs :) and yeah we all went cliff diving afterwards too :) ohh and other than gas money to drive there and back it was very low budget, so yes look at all your options on where to go, Don't sacrifice one place for another that you both love, The best thing about having the wedding outside is that it cost almost nothing, so go all out on the place :) It's the receptions that cost a lot.
Very good advice thank you.
Quote from: Bigdaddy on July 09, 2012, 01:12:22 PM
let me know where & when, ==congrads
umpa DJs send him a message
I forgot Umpa djs thanks Arnie,next 4th of july is the date, where is yet to be decided.
congrats
Congrats! If ya need a wall support ima pro leaner.... not much usefull outside of that tho. ;D
Quote from: lilred on July 09, 2012, 11:15:05 PM
Congrats! If ya need a wall support ima pro leaner.... not much usefull outside of that tho. ;D
We could use ya to hold up a drunk or two...lmao
cool congrads we got married at dow gardens in midland june 8th 85 * sunny but no rain
if your doing flowers look right now and see what is bloomed or in season
Quote from: Disturban on July 09, 2012, 11:20:52 PM
Quote from: lilred on July 09, 2012, 11:15:05 PM
Congrats! If ya need a wall support ima pro leaner.... not much usefull outside of that tho. ;D
We could use ya to hold up a drunk or two...lmao
==wtf ya think im doin leanin on the wall beerr ==roll jkk
Quote from: lilred on July 10, 2012, 01:01:37 AM
Quote from: Disturban on July 09, 2012, 11:20:52 PM
Quote from: lilred on July 09, 2012, 11:15:05 PM
Congrats! If ya need a wall support ima pro leaner.... not much usefull outside of that tho. ;D
We could use ya to hold up a drunk or two...lmao
==wtf ya think im doin leanin on the wall beerr ==roll jkk
LMFAO
Congratulations to you both
Congrats
Pro grade's wife does the cake
Quote from: Mudduck on July 11, 2012, 01:24:17 AM
Pro grade's wife does the cake
Thanks for the info, as of right now my X of all people is doing the cake but I will keep her in mind if something happens.
Quote from: Disturban on July 11, 2012, 03:03:48 AM
Quote from: Mudduck on July 11, 2012, 01:24:17 AM
Pro grade's wife does the cake
Thanks for the info, as of right now my X of all people is doing the cake but I will keep her in mind if something happens.
that sounds dangerous loll
applaudd applaudd ==congrads ==congrads
been married for 30+ years best thing i ever did!