stress and a bad situation

[blazentrout]

Well, i am dealing with a bad situation where i live,on sept 29 my next door niebors were murdered and the house torched. the problem is my wife is pregnent with our 2nd kid and is having a very hard time dealing with everything that is going on. she is very stressed out and i am conserned for her health.she has every right to be woried and i dont blame here for being so. any advise on how to help her deal with this, i am trying my best but could use some help, thanks Trout

[Bo Duke]

Id say try and get away for a weekend or something..... sry to hear about that man, thats gotta be ruff

[blazentrout]

she left last weekend with the munch. she works as a teller and people keep asking/talking about it to her, so she cant even go to work to get away. i think she will leave again this weekend. i really would hate to see what here blood preasure is. it is deff hard and streesfull

[Mudbuster]

have you thought about getting her in to see a theropist they will know more than anyone on this site what may help her.


I think I saw a story on the news about the house your talking about that really sucks. I hope she gets better

[PathWayMan]

lost for words man but good luck to you and your family

[Mrs. OC]

Is it possible to move??  thats what i would do..

[TBigLug]

I think getting her in to see a therapist would really help. Might not take more than a couple visits for them to help her deal. Sorry to hear about the bad stretch. All your fellow Got Mudders are pulling for you guys!

[blazentrout]

lost for words man but good luck to you and your family

Is it possible to move??  thats what i would do..

not really,cant aford to,to much stuff in the shop to move. i would take a beating even if this did not happen. now would you even consider bying a place that was next door to a mass murder site? i'm not upside down for our morgage but this put the prop value right in the pooper. if it is still a problem after they tear down the house, i'll look into moving. we are going to have to look into the the therapy. the biggest thing i think that will help is when they cacht the people. Thanks  for the kind words and info. Trout

[Uncle Steve]

have you thought about getting her in to see a theropist they will know more than anyone on this site what may help her.


I think I saw a story on the news about the house your talking about that really sucks. I hope she gets better

[Ranger Dave]

my  thoughts and   go  out to  you  and  your  family.     hope  the  best  for all of ya.    but  it  sound  like the  worst is  over.   now the  healing part  can begain.  sounds  like you  got the  raw  end of  a bad deal.   you  was  not involved in.    are   with you and  your  family. 

[Bigdaddy]

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my  thoughts and   go  out to  you  and  your  family.     hope  the  best  for all of ya.    but  it  sound  like the  worst is  over.   now the  healing part  can begain.  sounds  like you  got the  raw  end of  a bad deal.   you  was  not involved in.    are   with you and  your  family. 

[Tonya :)]

holy crap dude... was it just random? Because I mean stuff like that happens all the time and its terrible. I will pray for your wife and for the stupid idiot who did it. I hope things get better for you guys.

[Eroq]

hmm, biggest thing i could say, would be if she feels she needs to get away for a few days, by all means let her, gotta thinkin about the youngin in the oven too.

Good luck...

[tcb]

keep her busy, don't give her time to sit and think about it, make her laugh, tell her a good joke, "Honey are you from Tennessee?, You are the only 10 I see."