ex boyfriends updated 04/08/12

[cvan]

dont push to hard against her you dont want to alienate her hopfully she see it on her own and moves on i have three daughters and its hard to watch them make mistakes  but they have to learn on their own  nothing we can do about it good luck hopfully it will work out the way you like

[bubba]

well she is talking to me again so im hopin she woke up and realized i was right 

[7387chevynut]

Just curious "where" she goes to school at?......18,000 a year?........for that price I'll assume she stays on campus.

Did she ever check into Saginaw Valley State??......a lot closer.....and a hell of lot cheaper.

[bubba]

Just curious "where" she goes to school at?......18,000 a year?........for that price I'll assume she stays on campus.

Did she ever check into Saginaw Valley State??......a lot closer.....and a hell of lot cheaper.

lake Superior state university its not the college so much its the amount of classes shes taking, a major with 4 minors and yes she lives on campus in a apartment which i pay rent and utilities

[DV1OSusie]

Sad to say I was the daughter who wouldn't listen.  I pushed back when I was warned about the guy I was with, defended HIM instead of listening to the people who truly cared about me.  My plans for my life, my credit, MY daughter's life......etc, are still screwed up from the bad choices I made when I was that age.  I got a good degree, make respectable money....and because of bad choices, I have NOTHING to show for it.

The only good thing about all of it (I guess) is at least my daughter has seen what not to do as far as relationships go.  I guess, if it helps her, and maybe your daughter.......

The most important advice I can give either of them is this......people are always on their best behavior when they are dating.   If you are arguing and having problems at that stage.......GET OUT!!!!!  If you don't see eye to eye when things are "good".  How do you ever think you will make it when things actually get BAD.

and......no matter what you think......don't fool around with somebody you're not serious about!  Like it or not, birth control doesn't always work, and if it doesn't......Do you really want to spend the rest of your life sharing a child with someone you wouldn't leave a dead cat with?  Trust me, the system will not protect you.  He can show up drunk and high, and if you refuse to let him take your child with him.......you are the one who gets in trouble.

Done ranting.....didn't mean to......I just hate to see anyone make mistakes like mine.

Good Luck!





 

[CamoCowgirl8686]

Tuff love sucks.. but its' effective..
your footing the bill for her to come home.. put your foot down and let her know that if she would like you to continue this she cannot see him, if she insists..
let her pay her own way home.  let her know how you really feel about this guy.

if the law has already been called.. she's on both sides of the coin..
can't do well in law school.. when you have a police record.. that's an oxy moron!!
who's footin the bill for college

[CamoCowgirl8686]

My dad was really hard on me and my sister growing up, we made a lot of mistakes with the wrong ppl but sometimes you have to make those decisions to learn from them...

[bubba]

My dad was really hard on me and my sister growing up, we made a lot of mistakes with the wrong ppl but sometimes you have to make those decisions to learn from them...

i agree!!  but certain mistakes Can end any thought of her career in D.E.A, FBI OR HER FIRST CHOICE HOMELAND SECURITY