Down and Out

[xjs3667]

A little update on my life guys.... Me and wife are getting a nasty divorce after I found she has cheated on me multiple times... so I got that going for me and the long drawn out legal process, I am fighting for as much custody as possible as she has strung herself out drugs and alcohol, so I got that going for me...  on top of that this past saturday, I was out doing some test and tune no my race quad and on my buddies private track... I had a bad crash and ended up crushing my L1  vertebrae  and have 3 other herniated discs in my back... so there goes my summer, I have to wear a brace fro 2 months and then they will do a follow up and determine weather or not surgery is needed... if not I will be staying in the brace for another 4 months on top of that... so now im outta work and jusputa cap on my racing season I am still laid up in the hospital and will be here until wed. or thur.  so Say a little prayer for me as I dont know if m life could gfet anymore shittier as hospital bills are starting to pile up and I will now have to have in home care and then if my back heals correctly I will have a long road of physical therapy...  thanks for letting me rant and vent guys 

[1 ton tj]

wish you the best. but never down an out. if your down just read this post Clinker 2.0 that's what I do.

[Clinker]

That really sucks man. But DON'T let stress and anger defeat you. I know its easier said than done. Take a day and scream, yell, cry and get it all out. Remember, some where somebody has it 10 times worse than you or me.
"It Could Always Be Worse"

[xjs3667]

thanks guys and yes other than my kids that is the drive that keeps me going , is that it could always be worse, or i still have it made compared to someone else.... but it does seem everyday there is something else and if and it keeps getting worse and worse but it can only get better

[newS10]

wish you the best. but never down an out. if your down just read this post Clinker 2.0 that's what I do.

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[mudbillyredneck]

Every day above ground is a good dam day 

hope things take a turn for the better for ya though .... you could sure use a break it sounds like

[domedirty2]

Life has its ups and downs .  Just keep lookin up.    MOst of the battle is in your own head, I know it sucks right now. Just always keep a POSITIVE ATTITUDE!!!!!!!!   It will get better. Our prayers are with you.

[Bigdaddy]

[Uncle Steve]

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[old school truck dude]

Sorry to hear all this, hoping you have a speedy recovery and better luck

[boggers55]

Wish you luck get better soon to go race

[J.C.]

Sorry to hear all this, hoping you have a speedy recovery and better luck

[72 Bogger]

Sorry to hear all this, hoping you have a speedy recovery and better luck

[xjs3667]

slow process of recovery, Im doing a little better, at home now, and able to walk around some. Still in a lot of pain, but thats what the narcotics are for
Ive also recently met a new lady she might be a keeper, she invited me out to a mud bog on sat   anyway here are some pics of my ct scans of my spine.. official verdict is L1 vertebral fracture, L2 endplate Fracture, T12 vertebral fracture, and 3 herniated discs

[old school truck dude]

Update!

[xjs3667]

lol havent been on here in a long time... but my back is about as good as its going to get without having surgery. I am back to work, and have my first race of the season this sunday! Im pretty stoked....   Divorce was finalized nov. of last year, what a bunch of crazy crap with all that. I have primary custody of my 3 kids, which is great but still fighting to get full custody, as drugs and drinking have completely took over her priorities. But in the middle of all the bad stuff one of the best things did happen, I found the love of my life, and more than any man could deserve, she also has a daughter, she treats my kids just like hers, and with so much love and kindness, I met her right before I broke my back, and she has been by my side ever since. We got us a 6bed 4 bath house and 6 car garage... plenty of space for 4 kids and for me to work on the toys... a big upgrade from a trailer park lol.... and althogh things arnt still where Id like them to be, and there is still ongoing "baby momma drama" lol I feel like for once in my life everything is going good and were unstoppable, I feel like this is the point in my life were I have been trying to get to for so many years, its great!!  geez I reread my origonal post and my god was that depressing lol, its amazing how much can change in a year. thanks for all the love and support from my muddin family

[mathew21]

Great update Thanks for Sharing.